Guten tag! Bon jour!
I apologize for taking so long to write about my spring break adventures. This week has been quite hectic considering I blew off everything I needed to do until I got back to the villa. Who cares..it was worth it!
Spring break was unbelievable.
It began Friday morning with a train ride to the Pisa airport and a flight into Paris. There were 7 of us total traveling together in Paris, but only 3 of us (myself included) stayed with my friend and former teacher/coach John Kim. A little too big of a crowd to travel with, if you ask me, but we had a fun time nonetheless. On the first night, Kate, Emma and I finally arrived to John's apartment, and he was waiting there with bread, cheese, and champaign. What a way to kick off Paris, right? With our bubbly buzz, we went to the Louvre at night, and that was probably one of the coolest memories of my time in Paris. No crowds. No lines. No massive groups of Asians huddling around the Mona Lisa. We had her all to ourselves and stayed until close. Because of the art history class I'm taking, I was able to analyze the paintings and explain them to John. Always embracing my innernerd.
To be honest, my time in Paris is kind of a blur. I love that city but this was my second time there, and this time was very rushed. We only stayed from Friday afternoon until Monday morning, so the time was filled with hitting all the tourist attractions because the other girls have never seen them before. My time there was still wonderful, of course, because Paris is so charming and exciting no matter what you do, where you go, or what you eat. Some of the main spots we hit were the Musee d'Orsay (saw Claude Monet my favorite), Notre Dame (actually went to a Sunday mass there because a few girls I was with are Catholic--don't worry, I didn't take communion if you were wondering ;) ) Sain Germain Des Pres, Montmarte, Moulin Rouge, Champs Elysees, and probably more. My memory of Paris is hazy, but I know loved being there and seeing John again. I need to stop smoking so much pot...
Hi grandma!
I'm kidding!! I wouldn't do pot, just acid.
Now let's move on to my favorite part of spring break: Frankfurt, Germany. Land of the Deutsch. Land of Apple Wine. Land of the Blum (which I learned means flower in German!). Home of the Levi Family. The coolest family in Europe. The family I am proud to be a part of.
My journey to Frankfurt began in the coolest way. John brought me to the train, helped me get situated, showed me to my seat and gave me a big send off hug. From there, I was on my own. About an hour into the train ride, a German woman with a baby was having difficulty with her luggage, so I got up to help her and must have said "here you go" to give away my American accent. I sat back down, and the young Indian guy sitting next to me turned towards me and said, "That was nice of you." That was the beginning of a 3 hour conversation that lasted until we reached Frankfurt. Within that 3 hour conversation my new friend Vikrant and I talked about our backgrounds, Indian stereotypes, racism in both Paris and Germany (and how he is affected by it), communal living (he grew up this way), conformity, how difficult it is in India to NOT conform, and his music career. Oh yah, we also discussed our views on the 2012 world apocalypse and he said that he is ok with the idea of it happening. Why you ask? Because then finally everyone will be forced to come together and rely on each other. No more living in lonely isolation. That is a beautiful way to look at it, I thought. Vikrant is a musician and attends a music school in Paris. He is actually coming to perform in Florence in April, so we exchanged names/email because I told him I will bring friends and see him at his show! Interesting start to my journey alone, don't you think?
I arrived to Frankfurt and started walking down the station looking for Vera. She spotted me first, ran up to me with such excitement, and gave me the biggest bear hug. It felt so good instantaneously. I knew my week with her was going to be amazing. And it was. She was so elated that I was there, and the feeling was mutual. My first day in Frankfurt was unforgettable. Vera took me to where my great grandpa Erwin Levi and great grandma Oma Levi lived during the Holocaust with all of the Levi children (one was my grandma Hilda). Outside of the apartment was a golden cobblestone on the sidewalk with Erwin Levi's name and deportation date to Auschwitz. (Pictures are on Facebook) It was incredibly moving. Vera, then, showed me my Oma's earlier and later apartments, Vera's home growing up, and the hotel where my mom and dad stayed when they came to Frankfurt. After all of that, Vera and I worked up such an appetite that we had a huge German meal and stopped for some tea and cake after that. This woman knows how to eat! We hit it off like we've been known each other for years. It was scary how similar she is to my mom, but I loved that aspect every single minute we were together. Later we went back to her apartment, and Daniel was there waiting for us. He is the funniest man. I love love love Vera, but I must say, Daniel and I have some sort of interesting connection. He is what I like to call, Silent But Deadly. (And no, not the gas) He is a relatively quiet man, but when he has something to say, he is dead on and it's usually hilarious. He is sarcastic like me and we kept going back and forth with each other the entire week. I'd make fun of him, and he'd make fun of me. Then we'd make fun of Vera together. It was the best! He is the best.
Vera and Daniel had such a passion to get to know me, and it did not ever feel forced. I could tell they really loved having me around, and this made me feel incredibly special. I am their 2nd cousin, 26 years younger, essentially a stranger, and not at ONE point did it ever feel that way. It was like we were all adult best friends from the first meal we had together, which was spent laughing, drinking, and stuffing our face with German meat and potatoes and cakes. We shared stories, and I learned all about my mom and dad, and how much they love them, my grandma, and uncle Rick. Hearing about how the German family perceived the American Blum Family (since we are their only American connection) was fascinating. Their beautiful American cousin Dianie, they called her, would come to Frankfurt, and the whole Levi family would drop everything to see her. She was a celebrity to them, the best kind, and each individual in the German family felt some special relationship with her because she made it that way.
During the days, Vera and I would explore, attend different museums and art exhibits, eat delicious meals, and have long, deep discussions. Daniel would join us at night because he worked during the day, and the fun would continue. One day Vera and I took a trip to Berlin to learn about the city's history. We had a private tour guide Johannes, and boy, did he know his stuff! He took us to both West Berlin and East Berlin, and showed us the hidden spots no typical bus tour could show you. Around 11am things went down hill. I was experiencing severe cramps in my stomach and they progressively got worse to the point where I couldn't walk, sit up, or breathe without feeling a stabbing pain. I tried to tough it out for as long as possible but by 3pm, Johannes looked at Vera and said to her in German that Hayley needs to go to a hospital now. Vera completely agreed because my face was turning white and I looked like hell. They rushed me to the Berlin hospital where Vera and I waited in the ER for 2 hours before seeing a doctor. Finally, they called my name and the doctor I saw was a complete jerk. He didn't believe me when I said I wasn't pregnant (even Vera laughed at that one) and then he decided I had gastritus. So, he gave me a blood test and an infusion of drugs in my arm to calm my stomach. Vera was my guardian angel throughout this entire process, holding my hand, and telling me funny stories when I was fainting from the sight of a needle. When I gained full consciousness she kept up with the stories and soon I was laughing again. Thank god for Vera. Blood came back normal/healthy, but the drugs didn't work. After being in the hospital for 3 1/2 hours, Vera thought maybe we should get a hotel and stay in Berlin, and I refused. So on the train I curled up on 2 chairs like a little homeless girl (haha) and we eventually made it back to Frankfurt after quite the long day. The next day I saw Vera's personal doctor in Frankfurt, and the conclusion was that this was a bad case of irritable bowel..what else is new in my life?? No more Parisian baguettes for me, that is for sure!!
Health today: I'm on the road to recovery, not back to 100% yet, but hopefully soon soon soon!
Daniel and Vera were the best with my situation. They never once made me feel like a medical case or burden, but at the same time they took care of me. All I'm going to say is thank the lord this happened with them and not in Italy or in Paris. Having family by your side, a loving family, at a time like that, was amazing and extremely appreciated.
Forgetting now about Berlin, the best memory of my journey in Frankfurt was the last night I was there. Daniel and Vera planned a family reunion dinner in my honor. I was both excited and nervous to meet all of my mom's aunts, uncles, and cousins. Excited to finally meet them, but nervous that I would disappoint them that I didn't know any German and I knew the focus was on me. However, the moment I walked into the restaurant and saw all of their faces, that nervousness went away. They were so happy to have me there and came up to me with hugs and kisses. My mom's aunt Ingrid was crying she was so happy to see me. And the fact that I didn't know any German was fun! Daniel and I were a little duo, and he was the parrot on my shoulder translating everything people were saying. We had a great time the entire night and I had really great conversations with members of the younger generation because they knew a decent amount of English. Everyone kept asking me when I am coming back, they want to make this a tradition, and how long they have to wait to see me again. Now I felt like the celebrity. I was so honored they felt this way about me! I have decided that I am going back to visit in 2 years, on Daniel's 50th birthday, and we are going to celebrate it with lots of beer and apple cake.
Finally Sunday I said bye to them at the airport. I was so sad to leave them and go back to Italy. I know that sounds ridiculous. What a hard life going back to Italy, right?? I guess I was so bummed out because my time with them was so relaxing, enriching, and unbelievably fun. It was nice to feel cared for and to feel like I was part of a strong family base. Now I feel included in the German family members, and that is all I could have ever hoped for. Remember how I dreamed this would be only the beginning of a tradition? Well, it is reality now. I finally understand why my mom had such a deep care for her family abroad. They are such warm, loving people, and I cannot wait to embrace them again soon.
Besides spring break, everything else is great over here in the villa. My roommates and I are super close. They are such great friends and seeing them after break ended was very exciting. There are only about 7 weeks left here..time is flying, so I must continue to take advantage of everyday. I don't let myself forget where I am and how lucky I am to be here. (I have certain friends back home to thank for that)
Once again, I want to thank you all for letting me share my thoughts and experiences with you. The fact that you read my blog makes me more happy than you know!
Loving keepin' it real,
Hayley